If the Sex is Not Satisfying, Please Say So

Female sexual satisfaction is generally low
Everyone’s sexual desire and sexual performance is different, so sometimes there may be an imbalance between partners. For a shy woman, if her husband’s performance is lacking and she does not know how to improve it, it can be very unsatisfying. A survey by American marriage experts shows that female sexual satisfaction is generally lower than that of men.

Most women do not express their sexual powers
The highest levels of sex combine both body and soul. Surveys show that 70% of modern urban women have active sex lives, which suggests that modern women recognize their sexual rights. But as to specifically what should be done, many women are not clear. A lot of people try subtle hints and actions to secretly help increase their partner’s libido, however these actions may be ignored, leaving the women themselves to feel hurt.

Men and women evaluate their sex lives differently, which means the sexual attitudes and ways of thinking between partners is also different.

In general, men like to think of their sex life as a separate thing. If there is a problem in their sex life, its solution will focus on the sex only. Women should boldly explore sex with their husband, the issues of time, interests and methods, to allow both people to truly participate and have a tacit understanding.

According to a survey by a famous sexologist, when a woman expresses her sexual desire, the man’s sexual passion will increase by up to 25%. What’s more, when the woman shares her sexual attitude and takes the initiative, it helps prevent the male sexual impulse from coming and going too quickly.

Do not be too direct
During communication, it is important not to make the male feel oppressed, and make him flinch from sex more. So when expressing herself, women should not be too direct.

Choose a time when both people are alone. First, the woman should let her partner know that she is troubled, then gradually steer the conversation toward some of the couple’s common activities, such as cooking, before finally hinting at the problems of their sex life. Be sure to let the man feel important. When the needs of the male self-esteem are met, he will be more ready to meet the needs of the woman. If the man still does not “wake up”, then it is preferable to stop and talk about it another day.

If a husband understands the intentions of his wife but after a period of time, still cannot improve the situation, it may be due to the pressures of work or physiological dysfunction. At this time, it is best to see a doctor and not blindly try to remedy it.